"Loneliness behind Togetherness: Exploring Elderly Perceptions of Emotional and Social Support from Family and Friends"
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https://doi.org/10.63682/jns.v14i11S.9367Keywords:
Elderly perception, emotional support, social isolation, ageing, family relationships, friendship, loneliness, intergenerational connection.Abstract
In the context of increasing global longevity, understanding the emotional and social dimensions of ageing has become vital. This study investigates the paradox of perceived loneliness among elderly individuals despite being surrounded by family and friends—a phenomenon we term “loneliness behind togetherness.” Using a multidisciplinary approach that incorporates sociological and psychological perspectives, the paper explores how older adults perceive the quality of emotional and social support they receive from close relationships. Findings reveal that while many elderly individuals live in proximity to loved ones, they often experience emotional distance, diminished interaction, or lack of meaningful engagement. Factors such as changing family dynamics, reduced mobility, health limitations, and internalized ageism contribute to this hidden loneliness. The study underscores the importance of intentional communication, emotional validation, and inclusive familial roles to promote well-being in later life. Recommendations are offered for policymakers and caregivers to foster environments that prioritize emotional connectivity alongside physical presence.
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